To Keep, or Not to Keep? That is the question.
My recent blog post on exactly how to sort & purge got some interest, and the question I was asked most was, “So now that I know how to purge, how do I know what to purge?”
Here are my tips for prioritizing what to keep:
- If you LOVE it, USE it, or NEED it, then KEEP it.
The key here is to be real about those feelings. “Love it” means it’s one of your very favorite top 10 things and if your house caught on fire you’d grab it. “Use it” means it’s served it’s purpose in the last 6 months. “Need it” means it helps you with a routine action, or you can think of at least 3 things you’re realistically going to do with it in the next 6 months. Let go of things that don’t meet these criteria. Period. - Be careful not to cling to the idea that more storage is the only solution to clutter. Clutter happens for several reasons including holding on to things you don’t use/need, or buying new things that you don’t use/want/need. Read this list of questions to help you decide what to keep.
- Identify your top 3 priorities for a space and eliminate anything that doesn’t meet those goals.
- Remember that the people using a space are more important than the things cluttering it. If the clutter is negatively affecting how you or others feel on a daily basis, or if you realize you’re treating your things better than you treat the people around you, it’s time to do a “gut check” on your priorities and get rid of some stuff.
- Set up boundaries for the space. The room you’re in should only contain items used for that room’s purpose, otherwise it will end up stuffed to the gills, will lose its focus, and you’ll have to start the organizing process all over again.
- Part of the organizing process is the “shuffle” of stuff from one space to another temporarily, so designate a staging area that can be used to store items for the short term until they have a home in the room where they really belong.
- Enlist help. If you get stuck, call in a neutral party to help. A friend, a neighbor, or your friendly neighborhood professional organizer (*wink*) can provide a fresh set of eyes on your things, and they can be very effective in keeping you focused and motivated.
Truth is, organizing is all about prioritizing and setting boundaries. This should get you started on identifying yours.







